The Art of Giftology

The Art of Giftology

A Christmas Guide

Christmas is a time for giving and receiving gifts. But have you ever thought about the art of giftology? It’s not just about the gift itself, but the care, and creativity that goes into it.  It is the practice of giving gifts thoughtfully and intentionally. It’s about choosing the perfect gift and presenting it in a way that shows you care.  Here are a few tips to help you master the art this Christmas:

  • Think about the person. What are their interests? What do they need? What would they really appreciate?
  • Personalize your gifts. A personalized gift shows that you put thought and effort into your selection.
  • Wrap your gifts beautifully. Presentation matters! Take the time to wrap your gifts neatly and creatively.
  • Don’t forget the little things. A handwritten card or a small token of appreciation can go a long way.
  • Give the gift of experience. We have a giftable (frame-able) map of cheap or free local experiences hand-drawn by my artisan nephew, adventurist, Jeremy Collins.

Ideas for Christmas:

  • For the foodie: A gourmet food basket, a unique gadget, or seasonal dish towel.
  • For the bookworm: A blank journal & special pen for taking notes and a bookmark.
  • For the traveler: A travel journal, a stylish bag or handmade macrame keychain as a bag-tag.
  • For the homebody:  So many choices!  A cozy pillow or throw, a scented candle, or a faux potted plant.
  • For the coffee lover:  A special mug, coaster & some chocolate coffee beans.

Ultimately, the true spirit of gifting is about giving from the heart. It’s about showing your loved ones that you care about them and appreciate them. I hope these tips help you this Christmas! Remember, it’s not about the price tag, but the thoughtful thought that counts. Please share your giftology tips here in the comments (Our gift to each other!) 

Creating Cozy

Creating Cozy

As the days shorten and temperatures drop, there’s no better time to create a cozy sanctuary within your home. Inspired by the Danish concept of hygge, (pronounced Hooga), this article explores how to transform your space into a haven of warmth and comfort.

Key Elements of Hygge:

  • Light: Soft, natural light, especially candlelight, creates a cozy atmosphere.
  • Warmth: Embrace the cold weather with layers of blankets, throws, and cozy clothing.
  • Nature: Incorporate natural elements like wood, plants, and animal hides to connect with the outdoors.
  • Comfort: Create a comfortable reading nook or seating area with plush pillows and soft textures.
  • Simplicity: Focus on quality over quantity, choosing items that bring you joy and peace.
  • Togetherness: Spend time with loved ones, enjoying shared experiences and conversation.

Creating a Cozy Home:

  • Candles: Opt for high-quality, natural candles for a warm glow and soothing scent.
  • Furniture: Choose wooden pieces for a natural and inviting feel.
  • Textiles: Layer blankets, throws, and pillows for added comfort and texture.
  • Decor: Incorporate nature-inspired elements like plants, flowers, and animal hides.
  • Reading Nook: Create a cozy relaxing spot with a comfortable chair, soft lighting, and a selection of books.

Hygge in Everyday Life:

  • Hot Beverages: Enjoy a warm cup of coffee, tea, or cocoa to combat the cold.
  • Cozy Clothing: Wear comfortable, layered clothing to stay warm and stylish.
  • Mindfulness: Practice mindfulness and gratitude to appreciate the simple pleasures of life.
  • Connection: Spend quality time with loved ones and build strong relationships.

By embracing the principles of hygge, you can create a cozy and inviting home that provides comfort and joy throughout the colder months

Finding Your Style

Finding Your Style

With all the different trends, it can be hard to know what style expresses who you are (or what you want to become).

Your style is as unique as you are.  You know it when you see it.  One of my favorite quotes is: “Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away”.

If you have been in my shop, you can see that it reflects an ever-evolving atmosphere of ‘feels’ that resonate with me and that I want to share with you.

 My style journey began with ‘primitive provincial’… French country- the more age-worn & natural, the better.  Toss in a little ‘cottage-core’ – (Whatever holds your heart is key.  Items are meaningful, fun, old, worn, or in perfect condition). Moving up to Belton, it morphed into ‘biophilic’-    everything had to coordinate, blend, and complement with green living plants- or at least the color.  My son & business partner, Jordan brought the ‘rustic-industrial’ vibe which paired well and fit the vintage brick building. 

We have both continued to morph into what I’ve heard described as Quiet luxury’:   Using natural wood tones, neutral furnishings, subtle textures, and rustic finishes, this style feels relaxed, casual, and sophisticated to create a livable, serene atmosphere.  Recently, I came across an old term ‘hygge’ (pronounced hoogla) – comfort, warmth, simplicity…  which you will be hearing more about soon.    Each morph feels like ‘THIS is it!’   but I’ve learned to be open to my ever-evolving senses.  Just a bonus for the season, I came across a new term called ‘decay décor’ – found, unearthed, and placed in positions of honor, adding humility, warmth & wonderment.

My message to you is to find your style and become sensitive to what resonates with your heart.  Where you spend your time matters.   It’s not materialism, it’s a reflection of who you are or who you want to become.   You are always welcome to come source your style at Marcellas on Main- and share your thoughts about it with me personally.  I appreciate every one of you who walks through my door.  

 

 

Vision and Mission

Vision and Mission

My vision for my shop is more purpose than paycheck.  To use my gifts and talents to inspire, supply and elevate style…  I guess you could say ‘to make money doing what I love with joy, satisfaction, and passion’.  

By ‘elevate’, I mean to transform your home into a place where you experience true delight throughout, as often as possible, even in the most routine of tasks.  Your home needs to work for you, not against you in your day-to-day life.  Your ‘dream’ home has to be the one you’re living in right now, not an imaginary ‘someday’.

Who you are changes over time, and your style can and should reflect that evolution.  Taking stock of what you love, both in terms of objects and experiences, is something that’s done over and over again as you follow your curiosity about the world around you.  And in turn, you’ll use that curiosity to develop a visual autobiography in your home.  It’s not a once-and-done kind of thing, and there’s no race to the finish line.

Home nurtures you when you need care, inspires you when you need motivation, and welcomes others when you need to celebrate.  It is my vision to provide unique items to fill all these needs.  Exceptional pieces of handcraftsmanship create character and personality in a home.  They are the soul and sophistication – just one piece makes a room feel complete. 

 

 

 

 

Chasing the Seasons

Chasing the Seasons

Owning a shop has launched me into a pattern of chasing the seasons.  After the fall & winter holidays, I scramble to stow that snugly for the next year, & fill the empty space with all things hopeful for a new year.  

Spring is such a fleeting season, by the time I am pleased with the display, it’s time for the long summer ahead.  As far as home decor, however, most of us direct our attention to the outdoors and activity, so we are less focused on decorating our homes.  We just want our restful retreat to come home to.  This is a model I embrace and practice myself.

Therefore, here on Main Street, I am enjoying my focus on the humans that come through my doors- enjoying each one & offering just a little retail therapy, maybe a cup of coffee or conversation.

The slow and quiet time awakens creativity again, feeling an edge on the seasonal chase.  We have time… those of us on the fall side of summer know all too well, how the passage of time is actually racing along at a faster pace than we realize.  That’s why when my friends come through the shop during a slow time & ask ‘how’s business?’ & I say ‘This is a slow time of year, but not bad’ …it is not with disappointment, but enjoyment.  The bills still need to be paid, but somehow, they continue to be met just fine, if not better.

 

 

Designing Main Street

Designing Main Street

A Bit of My History

I didn’t grow up in Belton.  I haven’t seen the changes through the years.  I did visit Mary’s Mountain Cookies and Tara’s a couple of times randomly in the last five years & I remember my impression.  Cute area, has potential.

Then, in 2019 the opportunity came up & I took the leap of buying a shop to rehab.  Looking out my front windows, I viewed the street daily & ideas processed.  I don’t have formal credentials, but I do have extensive experience in collaborating with those who do… and have studied design principles and color theory for most of my adult life.    Hands-on with remodels from church to friends to family for over 20 years. 

Leadership Needed

Like most historic Main Streets, Belton has a not-for-profit organization dedicated to the preservation of this historic district called Downtown Belton Main Street Inc.  (DBMSI) Wanting to be more involved using my skills and ability to help make it happen, I joined this group, offered to chair the Design Committee, and promote my vision.  I have talked to several of the building owners about ‘their’ vision for simple color updates.   Interesting, to say the least, but what I am hearing is either they are indifferent or they want their shop to pop, to be brighter and stand out above the rest, whether it’s good design or not.  They just want to be seen & do their thing. 

A Vision Needed

I’m looking at the street as a whole, and thinking… if each shop aims for the best ‘history meets future’ and considers the contrast or coordination with adjacent buildings, the design and color would be narrowed down to ‘what the building calls for’.   It would be a natural choice.  There are so many ways to incorporate individuality and signature style and colors and still be a part of the coordinated ‘whole’. 

A designer and artist guides the eye along in any composition.  The row buildings of Main Street are no different.  If each building is finished out in its best form, the whole will be attractive.  What people will notice is that this area pops!   The key phrase here is ‘be attractive’.  Good design will attract better businesses and a rising tide raises all ships.  Word will spread and businesses will grow.

Community Needed

For the last year, I have chatted with my customers about this- about Main Street & what a genuine treasure it has the potential of becoming.  This is what I see as a newcomer to Belton.  With the business and population busting at the seams, I see a real need to develop this unique area into a destination for foot traffic… an arts, retail, and dining area for people to stroll. 

Some years back there were some extensive design guidelines drawn up involving pocket parks, railroad landscaping,  historic structures (depot) rehabbed, biking trails, etc…    a wonderful vision proposed, but abandoned.   I’m wondering if there are others who think this area’s time has arrived, or it is it just me?

I would love to hear some feedback from those who frequent Main Street, or who have just visited.  What are your thoughts on color & style for buildings?   Should there be oversight & ordinances?    Should we ordinance the percentage of business to be retail, dining & arts?   We want the best for all.  But this area belongs to Belton, and I personally would love to get a conversation going with people who love the area as much as I do.   Please comment below.  Thank you!